May 8

I want doesn’t get, be specific with your language to manifest powerfully

Get intentional with your thoughts, get intentional with what you say, get intentional with how you frame your vision. Staying focused on the manifestation of our goals can be difficult, our jumbled uncontrolled thinking pops in with its little inner critical voice overriding our best intentions as if it is…

Self Development

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I want doesn’t get, be specific with your language to manifest powerfully

I want doesn’t get, be specific with your language to manifest powerfully

Get intentional with your thoughts, get intentional with what you say, get intentional with how you frame your vision.

Staying focused on the manifestation of our goals can be difficult, our jumbled uncontrolled thinking pops in with its little inner critical voice overriding our best intentions as if it is…

May 7

Ever wondered why the Law of Attraction principles don’t work and how to get unstuck?

It’s because we are constantly un-manifesting what we are attempting to manifest. We are manifesting what we think we deserve! Confused? Yes it can be, it sounds simple in the book of Law of Attraction and in the film. But what isn’t explained it also is, for the same principles to work in the opposite way. Imagine lines…

Manifestation

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Ever wondered why the Law of Attraction principles don’t work and how to get unstuck?

May 6

Wash that relationship out of your hair, break that habit, don’t keep asking why, when you keep going back.

Stop beating yourself up! Asking why over and over looking for that flaw deep inside ourself. Getting angry with yourself. Bashing your self worth into smithereens. Speaking to a woman who called for help, unable to let go of an unhealthy relationship, keeps stepping her toes back in every couple…

Personal Development

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Wash that relationship out of your hair, break that habit, don’t keep asking why, when you keep…

May 2

Failing to attend to our posture we abandon ourselves, simply standing up can make all the difference to who we think we are.

Reading Amy Power Cuddy; Presence Bringing Your Boldest Self to Your Biggest Life Challenges was life changer. A not great work environment had me exhausted in just the every day effort of being me. Slumping, at my desk, slumping in my mind, a less than version of myself and what…

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Failing to attend to our posture we abandon ourselves, simply standing up can make all the…

Apr 30

Radical Honesty Doesn’t Mean Unconditional Love is Ok

Sorry, I don’t understand Radical Honesty. Either love someone or don’t. Please don’t turn love on like a tap. Having this conversation over dinner with the brother of a friend when he was describing an argument with his girlfriend. We had this debate. My POV as I am curious as…

Personal Development

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Radical Honesty Doesn’t Mean Unconditional Love

Radical Honesty Doesn’t Mean Unconditional Love is Ok

Sorry, I don’t understand Radical Honesty. Either love someone or don’t. Please don’t turn love on like a tap.

Having this conversation over dinner with the brother of a friend when he was describing an argument with his girlfriend. We had this debate.

My POV as I am curious as…

Apr 30

You are, when you say you are, the I Am statement is the antidote to not becoming who you want to be

Stephen Pressfield says that in The War of Art. Not fake it to you are it, not fake it to you make it. You are, when you say it. When the little voice of self doubt creeps in and yells over the top of your own voice when you are…

Personal Development

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You are, when you say you are, the I Am statement is the antidote to not becoming who you want to…

Apr 29

Covid is over; get back out in the world by reconnecting to my future self

I had let her fade away, let laziness and complacency take over. Let a creepy vine of no responsibility for my life take over! Covid is over, but the complacent habits are still there I learnt about working with my future self several years ago, a tool to use to define and live a purpose with goals over a period…

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Apr 29

Turn the ironing board into a surf board and get back out in the waves of living

I let Covid flatline the world around me and I existed within the limitation of where I had to be, how I had to behave, isolate, work from home, masks, a world of restrictions and rules for two years. Being safe. The dreaming, planning, and the adventures stopped. Suddenly there…

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Turn the ironing board into a surf board and get back out in the waves of living

Apr 29

Covid is over; get back out in the world by reconnecting to my higher self

I had let her fade away, let laziness and complacency take over. Let a creepy vine of no responsibility for my life take over! I learnt about working with my higher self several years ago, a tool to use to define and live a purpose with goals over a period…

Getting Unstuck

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Covid is over; get back out in the world by reconnecting to my higher self

Apr 24

Old age ain’t no place for sissies

Mae West apparently had a cushion with this quote on it, I need a posit note on my forehead facing inwards. Recently a friend of mine woke me up to the fact that I had been living a comfortable zen life which was admirable but not with its usual adventurous…

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